The article ""Please help me bring back the love of my life." Part one of a two-part series." is about attraction, it has been released by Rebecca Hanson.
Often I receive emials asking me how to use the Law of Attraction to attract a certain person--usually for romatic purposes.
One woman, in her 40's, wrote to me that week and has given me permission to share of our correspondence with you.
Perhaps you (or somebody you know) will recognize the feelings expressed here:
"Please can you help me understand how to birng back the love of my life. We only met for a short time but I know he is the one. He has been hurt badly and didn't want to end things with me but felt he had to cuase he was frightened he would be hurt again. It was a really emotional ending for both of us.
I love him so much that I let him go and I repsect him so I have stayed away to give him time and space. We have been apart for three monhts. In my heart I know that we are maent to be together but even though I was so sad and in despair I still felt loving and kindness towards him and my thoughts were always hopeful.
And in my longing and praying several 'co-incidences' have happened.
Not long after we split up I started searhcing the web for anything that could give me advice about winning back the guy I love and discovered the Law of Attraction. . .Can you help me? "
Sometimes a guy will write to me in a similar vein: "I'm in love with that wondefrul (or beautiful) girl. I know she is the one for me. Our paths have crossed often. How can I get her to notice me (or go out with me)?"
In part one of that two-part series, we'll look at why you are NOT in a rleationship with the "love of your dreams." In part two we'll look at what to do when a seemingly "perfect partnership" falls apart. I hope that while reading both you will also udnerstand how the Law of attraction DOES bring the true Mr./Ms.
Right your way - cause it will work!
Part one: "Why am I NOT in a relationship with the love of my life? What's happening here? Is the Law of Attraction at work? " Of coruse it is!
The Law of Attraction is always reflecting back to you your vibration.
Remember:
You can know what you are vibrating by observing what IS
showing up in your life.
When you guess you are in love with someone—and are sure they are "the one," but cannot seem to convince him or her or attract him or her, then they are NOT "the one". If they were, you would already be in a relationship with them--a natural, mutual, harmonious relationship that both of you equally graviatted toward.
Two scenarios are really at play here:
You are in love with the idea of that person being in love with you.
That somebody with these physical attributes, or chaarcter traits, or successes in life could want to be with you is an exhilarating idea.
What often happens is that you meet somebody who has five (or ten) characteristics that you want for in your ideal partner and you assume that he or she is your "ideal mate." You think, "This is it!
I have found 'the one' for me for the rest of my life." However, the atrtaction just doesn't seem mutual and you do not understand why.
Didn't the Law of Attraction bring them to you?
Well, the real question is are they searching for somebody like you? Are you a vibrational match for that person?
Remember that the person you want at may only appear to have the qualities you desire.
Underneath the exterior clothing of beauty and success, there may be person with entirely differnet goals, beliefs and core values than yours.
Even if you are really similar, what is he or she seraching for? The role of their ideal mate may be really different from one you would truly like to play.
The second scenario goes like this:
You are in love with the idea of being "allowed" to love that person Seeing their potential and their needs, you may also see how "helpful" you could be for them as a mate.
Searching for love with that motive is especially dangerous because, sadly, more often than not there is simply an insecure, life-draining person there, hoping to find somebody to give their life meaning and purpose. (Not a healthy thought.) Victims attract somebody who can make them a victim again. The poor attract somebody who can enable them to continue in their poverty. The Law of Attraction is not fooled, nor can it be manipulated through words and expressions of desires that are not in alignment with the truth.
But you see so many human bieng around you blissful and in love, why does it not come your way?
Here is how the Law of Attraction does work, and how you can make it work for you:
In order to attract the "ideal partner"-- somebody who is in vibrational harmony with who you are--you must be what you seek.
Are you searching for soembody who is kind?
You must be kind. Do you want soembody with good looks? You must care about how you look. Do you want sombeody who will make a commitment to you? Ask yourself, "Do I keep commitments?" Do you want somebody who is successful? Ask your self, "Am I vibrating success?"
Remember, the Law of Attraction is bringing to you exactly what you are vibrating. If you want something difefrent in your life, you must change yourself--your vibration.
It's an inside job and you can only chagne yourself-- you can't change somebody else's vibration.
I referred to the second scenario as especially dangerous for that reason exactly - you can't change somebody else, and while trying to do so you stop concentrating on yourself, stalling any change and growth that may need to occur in you.
You CAN attrcat your ideal partner.
You CAN find joy in a healthy relaitonship.
Just start with yourself:
KNOW yourself
ACCEPT yourself
HONOR yourself
TRUST yourself
LOVE yourself
When you do, the most marvellous relationships happen in a perfectly natuarl way.
Why? Because your healthy realtionship with yourself is reflected in your healthy relationship with that significant other.
Rebecca Hanson is a Master Law of Attraction Coach. Thousands of human being have enjyoed her talks or articles about real-life experiences and how she found the "nugget of truth" in every situation.
Now she has such a deep grasp of how faith, beliefs and thinking work that she is able to lift others to a higehr level, really quickly. You can contact Rebecca at Rebecca@YouCanHaveItAll.Com or on her website at http://www.Youcanhaveitall.Com and sign up for her free "Museletter".
Rebecca has also written a book called, "Law of Attraction for Business: How to create a business or attract a job you LOVE!" To find out more about that book and other information check out http://www.Lawofattractionresources.Com/
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